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Tuesday, May 10, 2016
How to Help Your Family Grow BY RICK WARREN — MAY 10, Tuesday
“Since I ... have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you” (John 13:14-15 NLT, second edition).
If one of the marks of an awesome family is that we help each other grow, how do you do that?
Let me give you two ways that help people grow and two ways that don’t. This applies in every area of life.
Help each other grow:
Through example. Jesus did this in teaching the disciples. John 13:14-15 says,“Since I ... have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you” (NLT, second edition). Your kids don’t want to hear a sermon. They want to see Jesus’ example in your life.
Through conversations. If you’re not having critical conversations with your kids about real issues, they’re not growing. Unfortunately, most conversations we have with kids are about schedule, eating, or homework and not about the stuff that really matters in life.
The Bible says in Deuteronomy 6:7, “You must teach [God’s commandments] to your children and talk about them when you are at home or out for a walk; at bedtime and the first thing in the morning” (TLB).
Now let me tell you two ways that don’t work to help people grow:
Through criticism. Nagging doesn’t work. Condemning doesn’t work. Criticizing and complaining are totally ineffective in helping a person change. Why? Because when you criticize, you’re focusing on what you don’t want rather than what you do want. Ephesians 6:4 says, “Don’t keep on scolding and nagging your children, making them angry and resentful. Rather, bring them up with the loving discipline the Lord himself approves, with suggestions and godly advice.”
Through comparing. Everybody’s unique. There’s nobody in the world like you! That’s why comparing never, ever works. In fact, it’s lethal to any relationship. The Bible says, “Each person should judge his own actions and not compare himself with others. Then he can be proud for what he himself has done”(Galatians 6:4 NCV).